Carlos Mora Vanegas is good with those who are good and those who are not, because the kindness increases goodness: have faith in those who are faithful and those who are not. Because faith brings greater faith; the goodness and faith form the peace. Tao 49 are fully convinced that we are not perfect, we make mistakes, that we should be surprised at our imperfections, that we bother when something goes wrong, simply because we have been neglected, giving us step at all to express anger, hatred, rancor. Since then, we should worry then as we react, and that we are doing in favor of delete, transmute these imperfections and not be complaining constantly. We consider in this regard what Leo Buscaglia tells us, that people need the right atmosphere to grow and discover their individuality. We are certainly fortunate if someone took the job of observing us closely to discover our shine and help us develop our personal weaknesses. If you are a person who has already formed their family, should not surprise you that ever has affected with its behavior to your partner and I probably disappointed her, however it should have evaluated the cause of this, the reason for such conduct, how handled the power of his love and forgiveness in this regard. That is certainly possible as psychotherapists Connell Cowan and Melvyn Kinder, tell us when they point out that we’re often insufferable and fastidious and then two things occur: we develop the ability to forgive and move forward towards our growth or start build up resentment.
There are two ways to forgive: firstly, it is important to forgive oneself. We know of our imperfections, all once we did suffer our partner and even more so when we have not been attentive, we are not concerned by positively feeding our mission. Forgiveness is not excuse, or justify the hurtful acts, is simply forgive, get rid of negative feelings that accompany what we’ve done to hurt our partner.